Transform your marriage in a weekend with quarterly relationship meetings.

Stop letting "later" steal your life.

Make this your year of life by design, not life on default.

Do our 5-Step Framework!

If you want to level-up as a couple and do life differently BUT DON'T KNOW HOW, we have the HOW you're looking for.

It's our Quarterly Marriage Alignment Program!

The lives we've created for ourselves, and helped other couples create, are an example of what's possible for you and your married life when you do what we're teaching.

Meet Your Life Strategists for Couples

Hi, we're Aman & Tom.

We are Life Strategists for Couples and former lawyers.

We are high-achieving, driven individuals. We met in law school in 2009 and were decade plus-long practicing lawyers in private practice until 2024, with Aman being a Partner for 6 of those years.

Once we became lawyers in 2013, we thought we’d be “happy” ‘cause we had achieved our career goals. But the reality was that early in our careers, we had become so focused on work and people-pleasing, that our relationship suffered along with our hobbies and other interests.

As part of our evolution, in 2017, we became attracted to the financial independence movement and worked hard on our financial stability.

In 2019, we got engaged and wanted to create couple goals and plan a future tailored for us. So, this led us to doing this Program in January 2020. It helped us get clarity on our life goals and direction as a couple and find the space and time to start talking about big dreams.

We’ve been doing these quarterly relationship meetings for over 5 years! And, we’re so passionate about them because of the results we've created that we’re on a mission to help couples worldwide who want to do life on their own terms. 

Vanessa & Jack achieved 3 BIG RESULTS!

This life strategy program for couples is powerful because Aman and Tom don't just teach it, they courageously live and exemplify what they are teaching -- a life by design.

When life gets busy with kids, career, and responsibilities it's easy to let inertia take the wheel both in what you do in life and how you are in your marriage.

We've been married for 14 years and had some deep conversations from the very first module that we hadn't had before. We started the program just 4 weeks before the due date for our second baby and with a toddler at home. Still, we made the commitment to follow the process. It was so refreshing!

Using the framework along with Aman and Tom's friendly and structured guidance we achieved 3 big results.

First, we had much-needed conversations about how we have been and want to be showing up for each other in our relationship.

Second, we were able to drop into what we dream about for our growing family's future and start envisioning new adventures together.

Lastly, even though we had made spreadsheets about our finances in the past, we were stuck at an impasse on a big financial decision.

Our experience helped us answer some lingering financial questions and find alignment.

As Aman and Tom express so well -- big dreams need funding. These results are within reach for any couple.

What is missing for most of us is the commitment, structure, and accountability to turn intentions into action, dreams into real-life adventures. This is the value of the program.

To anyone that is unsure about whether to go for it, stop trying to go it alone and say YES. You won't get to these deep conversations "someday."

It isn't always easy to create the space to connect but it can be simple if you follow this user-friendly framework. This is an opportunity to expand into a greater vision of your future.

- Vanessa & Jack

What's inside the 1:1 VIP Program:

There's no more nagging or just talk with no action for Kasey & Jessica.

My partner and I like to day-dream (ok, it's mainly me...) BUT, we frequently talk about what's going on in our live's and the craziness that life becomes when you have a 1 year old, a dog, and your own business. We found ourselves talking and not acting. When we met Aman and Tom, we knew about their journey and the impact the Quarterly Marriage Alignment weekend has had on their life, so when the opportunity arose I took it.

The Program opened our eyes to the structure we need to be more successful by allowing us to goal set more effectively and keep each other accountable. Whether it's looking at our financials, talking about the future, or envisioning who our future selves will become, the Program provides the structure you need to build a better future together.

We now keep each other accountable and ensure we are doing so in a way that is fun and constructive. No more "nagging" as we are on the same page about everything because our goals are aligned allowing us to stay more balanced in this crazy period of our lives.

If you are unsure about the Program, don't be. It will be something you won't regret investing in as long as you continue to put in the work. If you're looking for structure, this Program will give it to you.

- Kasey & Jessica

It completely resolved their disagreements, helped them come up with a plan & led to unexpected results

The Program has been a game-changer for our marriage. We've been married for 25 years and participated in prior couples retreats and therapy, but nothing has been this helpful in terms of getting us on the same page as to what we want our present and future to look like.

I'm a natural dreamer and planner! My husband is not. I had no hesitation in signing up, but he was highly skeptical and reluctant. He didn't want to give up that amount of time, spend money on something he thought we could do on our own, or do all the exercises.

He agreed to do it, though, because we had been having disagreements over our retirement and home remodeling plans. Not only did it completely resolve our disagreements and help us come up with a plan we both feel great about, it also led to unexpected results.

We're more adventurous, more open to possibility, and thinking bigger as a couple than we have since we were newlyweds.

P.S. My husband would say he still doesn't enjoy the process, but absolutely loves the results, so he's all in! 

- Heather (and Mike) Hubbard