Teaching couples how to transform their marriage in a weekend with intentional future life planning.
Helping you turn "one day I want to ..." into your reality.
To the outside world, you've made it. You're living a good life.
You're successful and high-achieving. You have one degree if not two, a good job, you're married, live in a nice house and perhaps you're also blessed to be a mom.
BUT you've heard a voice in your head whisper, "is this really my life?"
You're grateful, but you feel like something is missing.
You want to break the cycle of work, kids, numb out with Netflix and wine, sleep, repeat.
You're not as happy as you thought you'd be after all your achievements.
You find you're too tired at the end of the day to meaningfully connect with your spouse. Somedays they feel more like a roommate.
Life is so busy that there's only time to talk to your spouse about the logistics of daily life - like, what's for dinner, the kids and appointments.
You feel like life is passing by without a plan and you want to take back control.
What you really want is to feel ALIVE again.
You want to be EXCITED about your marriage and future vs. overwhelmed, resentful and angry.
You want to connect deeply with your spouse.
And make a future life plan and shared vision of your lives together.
You want to start talking about your finances, your individual and shared goals and dreams.
And make decisions and a plan on how you're going to achieve them.
You want to level-up as a couple and do life differently BUT YOU DON'T KNOW HOW.
We have the HOW you're looking for.
It's our Quarterly Marriage Alignment Retreat Program!
The lives we've created for ourselves, and helped other couples create, are an example of what's possible for you and your married life when you do what we're teaching.
What is a QMAR?
QMAR is short for Quarterly Marriage Alignment Retreat.
In our QMAR Program, you'll learn how to do a QMAR.
A QMAR is a weekend with your spouse of dedicated time to design the life of your dreams through intentional quarterly planning.
It is sacred time and space to connect deeply with your spouse about your values, life plan and future shared vision .
As you can probably relate, this is something couples rarely, if ever, make the time for.
The QMAR weekend consists of 5 Sessions.
There's no more nagging or just talk with no action for Kasey & Jessica.
My partner and I like to day-dream (ok, it's mainly me...) BUT, we frequently talk about what's going on in our live's and the craziness that life becomes when you have a 1 year old, a dog, and your own business. We found ourselves talking and not acting. When we met Aman and Tom, we knew about their journey and the impact the QMAR has had on their life, so when the opportunity arose I took it.
The QMAR Program opened our eyes to the structure we need to be more successful by allowing us to goal set more effectively and keep each other accountable. Whether it's looking at our financials, talking about the future, or envisioning who our future selves will become, the Program provides the structure you need to build a better future together.
We now keep each other accountable and ensure we are doing so in a way that is fun and constructive. No more "nagging" as we are on the same page about everything because our goals are aligned allowing us to stay more balanced in this crazy period of our lives.
If you are unsure about the QMAR Program, don't be. It will be something you won't regret investing in as long as you continue to put in the work. If you're looking for structure, this Program will give it to you.
- Kasey & Jessica
It's time to create an intentional life by design with your spouse.
Buy QMAR Program NOWThe QMAR Program includes:
1. QMAR Course
A library of short instructional videos full of real life examples and how-to's. The videos are organized as:
1. Welcome to your QMAR
2. Session 1: Intention Setting
3. Session 2: Reflection
4. Session 3: Dream Casting - Visualization and Big Visioning
5. Session 4: Financial Reporting
6. Session 5: Goal Setting
7. QMAR Wrap-up & Next Steps
2. QMAR Workbook
You'll write in the 20-page Workbook while watching the instructional videos.
Each of the QMAR Sessions have detailed worksheets with fill-in-the-blank sections and thought starters making it easy to do and get started.
Includes BONUS sections like, how to create family money rules and a wrap-up checklist to help you actually do your next QMAR weekend.
3. Two 1:1 Strategy Calls
Pre + Post QMAR
For faster results and accountability, Tom and Aman want to meet with you and your partner by Zoom BEFORE and AFTER your QMAR weekend.
Pre-QMAR Call: Get You Ready for Your QMAR (30 min)
Post-QMAR Call: Goal Implementation and Strategy (1 Hr.)
You'll also get a Pre-QMAR Checklist that'll tell you exactly what you need to plan and have ready for the QMAR e.g. meal planning.
This Checklist makes your prep quick and easy.
4. A Private Community
A private community on Facebook. Connect with other driven, like-minded couples worldwide, celebrate your wins and share your best marriage life hacks.
It's time to create an intentional life by design with your spouse.
Buy QMAR Program NOWMeet Your Life Strategists for Couples
Hi, we're Aman & Tom.
We are 2 lawyers turned Life Strategists for Couples.
We are high-achieving, driven individuals. We met in law school in 2009 and were decade plus-long practicing lawyers in private practice up until earlier this year, with Aman being a Partner for 6 of those years.
Once we became lawyers in 2013, we thought we’d be “happy” ‘cause we had achieved our career goals. But the reality was that early in our careers, we had become so focused on work and people-pleasing, that our relationship suffered along with our hobbies and other interests.
As part of our evolution, in 2017, we became attracted to the financial independence movement and worked hard on our financial stability.
In 2019, we got engaged and wanted to create common goals and plan a future tailored for us. So, this led us to doing a QMAR Program in January 2020. It helped us get clarity on our life goals and direction as a couple and find the space and time to start talking about big dreams.
We’ve been doing QMARs quarterly now for over 4 years! And, we’re so passionate about them because of the results we've created that we’re on a mission to help couples who want something different from life.
In just the last 4 years of doing QMARs, we've planned for and realized these dreams:
- Became millionaires in our 30s and created financial stability that allowed us to both retire ourselves from the practice of law just a month apart (in April and May 2024), so we can pursue our next dreams of entrepreneurship and a life by our own design
- Started a family with fertility assistance at the ages of 35 and 36 (2022)
- Building a real estate portfolio (ongoing)
- Traveled through Amsterdam and Portugal for 6 weeks with Matteo (our son), when he was just 3-months old (2022)
- Taken Matteo on 26 flights before he turned 2 years old (2022-2024)
- Aman built up a side business teaching yoga to lawyers and hosting Vision Board Workshops (Beyond Yoga for Lawyers 2021-2023)
- Aman and Matteo were extras in 2 rom-com movies: Coupled Up for Christmas (2023) and Me & Mr. Christmas (2023)
- Invested in a local start-up company that ultimately failed (2020)
- Traveled to Amsterdam, Vico Equense and Sardinia, Italy for the month of June 2024 as a family before the arrival of our second child in Nov 2024
