Transform your marriage in a weekend with intentional future life planning.
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Learn how to turn "one day I want to ..." into your reality.Â
To the outside world, you've made it. You're living a good life.
You're successful and high-achieving. You have one degree if not two, a good job, you're married, live in a nice house and maybe you're also blessed to be a mother.Â
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BUT you've heard a voice in your head whisper, "is this it?"
You're grateful, but you feel like something is missing.
You want to break the cycle of work, kids, numb out with Netflix and wine, sleep, repeat.
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You're not as happy as you thought you'd be after all your achievements.
You find you're too tired at the end of the day to meaningfully connect with your spouse. Somedays they feel more like a roommate.
Life is so busy that there's only time to talk to your spouse about the logistics of daily life - like, what's for dinner, the kids and appointments.
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You feel like life is passing by without a plan and you want to take back control.
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What you really want is to feel ALIVE again.
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You want to be EXCITED about your marriage and future vs. overwhelmed, resentful and angry.
You want to connect deeply with your spouse.
And make a future life plan and shared vision of your lives together.Â
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You want to start talking about your finances, your individual and shared goals and dreams.
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And make decisions and a plan on how you're going to achieve them.
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You want to level-up as a couple and do life differently BUT YOU DON'T KNOW HOW.
We have the HOW you're looking for.
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It's our Quarterly Marriage Alignment Retreat Program!
The lives we've created for ourselves, and helped other couples create, are an example of what's possible for you and your married life when you do what we're teaching.
What is a QMAR?
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QMAR is short for Quarterly Marriage Alignment Retreat.Â
In our QMAR Program, you'll do a QMAR.
A QMAR is a weekend with your spouse of dedicated time to design the life of your dreams through intentional quarterly life planning.
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It is sacred time and space to connect deeply with your spouse about your values, life plan and future shared vision.
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As you can probably relate, this is something couples rarely, if ever, make the time for.
The QMAR weekend consists of 5 Sessions.
If you know how to do the math on life, the TIME TO DO THIS IS NOW not later.
Because "later" never comes.
Buy QMAR Program NOWMeet Your Life Strategists for Couples
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Hi, we're Aman & Tom.
We are 2 lawyers turned Life Strategists for Couples.
We are high-achieving, driven individuals. We met in law school in 2009 and were decade plus-long practicing lawyers in private practice up until earlier this year, with Aman being a Partner for 6 of those years.
Once we became lawyers in 2013, we thought weâd be âhappyâ âcause we had achieved our career goals. But the reality was that early in our careers, we had become so focused on work and people-pleasing, that our relationship suffered along with our hobbies and other interests.
As part of our evolution, in 2017, we became attracted to the financial independence movement and worked hard on our financial stability.
In 2019, we got engaged and wanted to create common goals and plan a future tailored for us. So, this led us to doing a QMAR Program in January 2020. It helped us get clarity on our life goals and direction as a couple and find the space and time to start talking about big dreams.
Weâve been doing QMARs quarterly now for 5 years! And, weâre so passionate about them because of the results we've created that weâre on a mission to help couples worldwide who want to do life on their own terms.Â
In the last 5 years of doing QMARs, we've planned for and realized these dreams:
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- Became millionaires in our 30s and created financial stability that allowed us to both retire ourselves from the practice of law just a month apart (in April and May 2024), so we can pursue our next dreams of entrepreneurship and a life by our own design
- Started a family with fertility assistance at the ages of 35 and 36
- Building a real estate portfolio (ongoing)
- đ Traveled through Amsterdam and Portugal for 6 weeks with Matteo (our son), when he was just 3-months old
- âď¸ Taken Matteo on 26 flights before he turned 2 years old
- đ§đ˝ââď¸ Aman built up a side business teaching yoga to lawyers and hosting Vision Board Workshops (Beyond Yoga for Lawyers)
- đĽ Aman and Matteo were extras in 2 Christmas rom-com movies: Coupled Up for Christmas and Me & Mr. Christmas
- Invested in a local start-up company that ultimately failed
- đşď¸ Traveled to Amsterdam, Vico Equense and Sardinia, Italy for the month of June 2024 creating memories as a family before the arrival of our second child in Nov 2024
- đđťââď¸ââĄď¸Â Tom just set and achieved his goal of running a half marathon this summer
If you know how to do the math on life, the TIME TO DO THIS IS NOW not later.
Because "later" never comes.
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Vanessa & Jack achieved 3 BIG RESULTS from their very first QMAR Weekend!
The QMAR life strategy program for couples is powerful because Aman and Tom don't just teach it, they courageously live and exemplify what they are teaching -- a life by design.
When life gets busy with kids, career, and responsibilities it's easy to let inertia take the wheel both in what you do in life and how you are in your marriage.
We've been married for 14 years and had some deep conversations from the very first module of the QMAR program that we hadn't had before. We started the program just 4 weeks before the due date for our second baby and with a toddler at home. Still, we made the commitment to follow the QMAR process. It was so refreshing!
Using the QMAR framework along with Aman and Tom's friendly and structured guidance we achieved 3 big results.
First, we had much-needed conversations about how we have been and want to be showing up for each other in our relationship.
Second, we were able to drop into what we dream about for our growing family's future and start envisioning new adventures together.
Lastly, even though we had made spreadsheets about our finances in the past, we were stuck at an impasse on a big financial decision.
Our QMAR experience helped us answer some lingering financial questions and find alignment.
As Aman and Tom express so well -- big dreams need funding. These results are within reach for any couple.
What is missing for most of us is the commitment, structure, and accountability to turn intentions into action, dreams into real-life adventures. This is the value of the program.
To anyone that is unsure about whether to go for it, stop trying to go it alone and say yes. You won't get to these deep conversations "someday."
It isn't always easy to create the space to connect but it can be simple if you follow this user-friendly framework. This is an opportunity to expand into a greater vision of your future.
- Vanessa & Jack
The QMAR Program includes:
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1. QMAR Course
A library of short instructional videos full of real life examples and how-to's. The included videos are:Â
1. Welcome to your QMAR
2. Session 1: Intention Setting
3. Session 2: Reflection
4. Session 3: Dream Casting - Visualization and Big Visioning
5. Session 4: Financial Reporting
6. Session 5: Goal SettingÂ
7. QMAR Wrap-up & Next Steps
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2. QMAR WorkbookÂ
You'll write in the 20-page Workbook while watching the instructional videos.
Each of the QMAR Sessions have detailed worksheets with fill-in-the-blank sections and thought starters making it easy to do and get started.Â
Includes BONUS sections like, how to create family money rules and a wrap-up checklist to help you actually do your next QMAR weekend.
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3. Two 1:1 Strategy Calls
Pre + Post QMAR
For faster results and accountability, Tom and Aman will meet with you and your partner virtually BEFORE and AFTER your QMAR weekend.
Pre-QMAR Call: Get You Ready for Your QMAR (30 min)
Post-QMAR Call: Goal Implementation and Strategy (1 Hr.)
You'll also get a Pre-QMAR Checklist that'll tell you exactly what you need to plan and have ready for the QMAR e.g. meal planning.
This Checklist makes your QMAR weekend prep quick and easy.Â
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4. A Private Community
A private community on Facebook. Connect with other driven, like-minded couples worldwide, celebrate your wins and share your best marriage life hacks.
The Ultimate Married Life Planning & Strategy Adventures.Â
You have 2 packages to choose from:
1) the Do-It-Yourself or
2) the VIP Experience.
VIP Experience Package
$2499
Best Value. The VIP Experience is valued at over $4497
JOIN THE 2025 WAITLISTFAQs
Who is the QMAR Program NOT for?
Will I get lifetime access to the instructional videos?
My weekends are too busy right now for a QMAR. Is there another way to do one?
I don't like Facebook, do I have to join the private group?
What if I still have more questions?
There's no more nagging or just talk with no action for Kasey & Jessica.
My partner and I like to day-dream (ok, it's mainly me...) BUT, we frequently talk about what's going on in our live's and the craziness that life becomes when you have a 1 year old, a dog, and your own business. We found ourselves talking and not acting. When we met Aman and Tom, we knew about their journey and the impact the QMAR has had on their life, so when the opportunity arose I took it.
The QMAR Program opened our eyes to the structure we need to be more successful by allowing us to goal set more effectively and keep each other accountable. Whether it's looking at our financials, talking about the future, or envisioning who our future selves will become, the Program provides the structure you need to build a better future together.
We now keep each other accountable and ensure we are doing so in a way that is fun and constructive. No more "nagging" as we are on the same page about everything because our goals are aligned allowing us to stay more balanced in this crazy period of our lives.
If you are unsure about the QMAR Program, don't be. It will be something you won't regret investing in as long as you continue to put in the work. If you're looking for structure, this Program will give it to you.
- Kasey & Jessica
